Friday, February 25, 2011
All is Well
Monday, February 14, 2011
Roses are for Valentines
To tell you the truth I am not a great fan of Valentine' s Day.
Love means never having to say 'HappyValentine 's Day ' So says Seema Goswami and I somewhat agree with her.
Well first of all there is the sheer pressure of it. All the entire world seems to become a part of a giant global conspiracy to turn 14th Feb. into a day for celebrating romantic love , sh e says.Read the rest of her article entitled BIN THE RED ROSES.
http://seemagoswami.blogspot.com/2011/02/bin-red-roses-love-means-never-having.html
In case you think I am the Grinch who stole Valentine 's Day I am sharing my lovely V roses from my garden.
Had a very peaceful and happy day today. Applied henna to my hair and paid some bills. Now I am going to make minestrone soup for supper.
Tomorrow my nephew Ashish (Ash for short) and his friend Megan are going to begin the first leg of their journey to India from Canada. They will arrive in Kolkata Wed 16th midnight. From their they will fly to the NE to visit my sister Namrita and then come to Alld. on Feb 24th. We all are so excited. And I am busy preparing.
Megan is a Navigator' s missionary in Ottawa. This is her first trip to India. I am really interested to know how she will react and what her observations and experiences will be on the short trip. I am making so many plans to give Ash & Megan a good time and also ensure their comfort and safety in an environment which is so different from theirs.
I 've had many foreigners -missionary friends come and stay with us.but they were well settled in India and knew how to take care of themselves etc. Megan is brand new - , hope she will have a positive experience.
Please pray for Ash and Megan as they begin their journey tomorrow.
Tuesday, December 7, 2010
The Paint Job
He returned empty handed saying they would get the paint the day after tomorrow. Whew, this guy is a major dealer and he doesn' t have enough stock!
Anyway I asked Pradeep ( the head painter who was the only man to show up today) to paint the kitchen and bathroom doors with the chocolate brown color we had. He did that and my kitchen cupboards too.
Tomorrow he will do the Ivory doors and windows.
After 28 years of pale colors , its taking some time getting used to the dark color. In the dark it appears as if the door is open, specially the kitchen back door.
Pradeep brought us these bottle gourds from his neighbour' s garden.The neighbour has an abundance and he gives them away free. We were so blessed we gave away lots of gourd pieces and I made veg soup with gourd, spinach, carrots with onion and garlic and a little seasoning. I also made dal (lentils ) with gourd and today a gourd stir fry (sabzi) I like it , its low cal. You can make a yogurt salad (raita) with it.
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
Ouch!
Today after the painters left I went to the market to buy some groceries. 

Tuesday, November 30, 2010
Hello Sheeba & A Short Note on India 's Caste System
Sheeba and Chandi saying Hi to each other.Chandi is the youngest member of our church
She also has a dog named Jacky. Her family takes good care of him, I see that when I visit them.
Sheeba is doing better. Her food intake increased today. She needs a bath , with all the dust flying around.
Today, on Day 7 the workmen gave the living room its first coat of paint and scrubbed the walls of the veranda and filled the cracks and fissures with putty , then smoothed the rough patches. It is a time consuming and laborious job. That 's another reason why people in India prefer to hire men to paint their homes. Painters belong to the lower economic class, and they are either ill-literate , semi literate., or school drop outs. Its good they find employment this way.These kind of people form a large part of our work force - people who perform daily mundane tasks, jobs which according to the caste system is reserved for the lower classes.. Sounds very bourgeoisie but its practical.This is a way the poorly educated people find means of livelihood.
I got interesting reactions from some of my readers about India 's caste system.
The caste system is an ancient Hindu legacy which has caused a lot of inequality, injustice and suffering over the centuries. There i s more on this Wikipedia LINK
It is completely banned and declared illegal by law. In fact the government has made considerable efforts to raise the status of the lower castes by providing job reservation, subsidised education ,health care, scholarships , cheaper food etc. Although this aid is riddled with faults ,controversies and corruption. At present the upliftment of Dalits ( underprivileged , backward classes)is a major issue politically. The Governor (Chief Minister) of my state is a Dalit woman, democratically elected.
The caste system is deeply embedded in the psyche and social milieu of our nation and it will take ages to completely get rid of it. But the Dalits are progressing and are taking pride in their identity. In fact if you can prove you are a Dalit, Scheduled Caste or Tribe or Backward Caste you can get special privileges.
On the other hand anyone who becomes a Christian loses his Caste status , although they retain their tribal identity.(A very controversial and complicated subject.) Christians don 't condone or practice the caste system. In fact the Christian world view and teaching acceptance of all men equal in the sight of God played a major role in the abolition of this degrading practice since colonial times.
Christians themselves were ( still are) considered low castes - worshiping a 'western god ' and eating meat etc. It was an anti colonial mindset too. Christians were clumped together with the British rulers.
Now after more than 60 years of Independence things have improved vastly but there is plenty of room for more.
With unemployment rampant, well educated or high caste Hindus etc. are vying for jobs which the lower class people used to do
In Ephesians chapter 2 , Paul likens believers to a building which God is constructing, whose cornerstone is Christ .
Ephesians 2
19 Consequently, you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but fellow citizens with God’s people and also members of his household, 20 built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, with Christ Jesus himself as the chief cornerstone. 21 In him the whole building is joined together and rises to become a holy temple in the Lord. 22 And in him you too are being built together to become a dwelling in which God lives by his Spirit.
I wonder how the Master Builder is cementing us all together,cleaning, polishing and smoothing us applying pressure and heat to make us worthy bricks for His temple.
Sunday, November 28, 2010
Home Improvement
This is a photograph of a marble engraving in a palace in Rajasthan (India). The tour guides play a game with the visitors. They ask them to identify the shapes carved on the panel. Everything blends so skillfully in this ornate carving. Can you identify the different motifs ?On day 5 a good part (1/3rd) of the house painting is over. I am relieved to get my computer back.
Saturday came with a rain storm which brought the temperature down.The heavy rain resulted in a 4 hour electricity outage. It rained for over 3 hours.
I have taken out light warm clothes.
This is a time to give away things we don 't need any more. We have lived in this house for 28 years and originally there were 9 of us. Only 2 are left now - my mother and me. The season of our lives has also changed so we need to get rid of extra baggage. One has to overcome the sentiments attached to stuff which has been with us for so long, though.
I am also thinking of how to re-arrange things and give the rooms a different look. One thing is for sure . I want to minimise the clutter.
Some of you asked about the color. I have chosen white paint for the walls and grille (iron work) and pale cream for the doors and windows. I like the clean sterile look. White will also keep the house cool in the summer. I will post some photos once the work is completed.
Once my Dad had the bedrooms painted pink and rest of the house in cream. But a darker shade will require more lighting and may cause eye strain too.
Have a good week ahead friends. On Monday my kitchen will be painted so I will not be able to cook anything. Everything is dismantled . I have some left overs in the fridge and will manage with bread and butter.
Poor Sheeba (my doggie) has her pants in a twist. She is eating one small meal in the afternoon. She asks for a bite after 10pm. With her favourite snoozing spots disturbed she thinks the Martians have attacked the house.
While their house was being renovated some friends of ours put their household things in storage and stayed in a hotel for sometime. Fortunate people!
Just finished using Spellcheck so here is a parting thought
SUM PEEPLE CAN SPEL BUT AIN 'T GOT NUTHIN TO SAY.
And some can 't spell worth a hoot but have profound things to say.
Thursday, November 25, 2010
My House Resembles A Disaster Area
On the morning of Day 3, my house resembles a disaster area. Have to bear it (smile). The men are doing a good job and I am demanding it. 1/4 of the painting has been completed.I am tired but have to keep going.
I will not be able to use the computer for the next 2 days.
Best wishes to you of you.
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
A Blog Award and 10 Blogging Mistakes
Mr Joseph of A MAN ON THE MOVE gave me this award. Thank you. Mr Joseph has a very attractive and interesting blog. His brilliant photos from South India , cultural information and inspirational posts make very good reading. I would encourage you to pay him a visit.I am a very ordinary blogger and hardly posses the skills of language or expression which all of you my fellow bloggers so beautifully exhibit in your compositions.
I recently read an article on blog improvement by Michael Hyatt, the CEO of Thomas Nelson Publishers.
Here it is.
DO YOU MAKE THESE 10 MISTAKES WHEN YOU BLOG?
Assuming you want to increase your blog traffic, there are certain mistakes you must avoid to be successful. If you commit these mistakes, your traffic will never gain momentum. Worse, it may plateau or begin to decrease.
How do I know? After writing more than 1,000 posts and receiving more than 20,000 comments, I have made most of the mistakes you can make—numerous times. As a result, I have begun to see certain patterns emerge. These are my top ten traffic-killers.
Mistake #1: You don’t post enough. Hobby bloggers may go weeks between posts. But frequency is what separates the men from the boys. You cannot build solid traffic without frequent posts. I have seen time and time again (via Google Analytics) that there is a direct correlation between frequency and traffic. The more I post—within reason—the greater my traffic.
Mistake #2: You post too much. Yes, this is possible, too. I don’t need to hear from anyone more than once a day—unless it is a group blog or a news site. You would do better to focus on writing one really great post a day rather than several mediocre ones. The trick is to find your frequency sweet spot. For me, it is four to five posts a week.
If a post starts getting too long, consider breaking it up into several posts.
Mistake #3: Your post is too long. Seth Godin is the master of the short, pithy post. His are usually in the 200–400 word range. I shoot for less than 500 words. But I often post 750 words and sometimes more. You can get away with this if your posts are “scannable”—that is, you make use of subheads, lists, and other devices that keep people moving through your content. If a post starts getting too long, consider breaking it up into several posts.
Mistake #4: You don’t invite engagement. When I talk about “engagement,” I am referring to a combination of page views, reader comments, and social media mentions. Postrank.com is a great tool for measuring this kind of engagement. The posts that generate the most engagement for me are those that are controversial, transparent (especially about failure), and open-ended. This is why I try to end every post with a question.
Mistake #5: You don’t participate in the conversation. When bloggers don’t participate in conversation by commenting on their own posts and responding to their readers, it is like hosting a party at your home, making a brief appearance, and then disappearing. In any other context, this behavior would be perceived as rude or odd. The same is true in blogging. People want to have a conversation—with YOU.
When you use subheads, lists of bullets or numbers, it draws readers in by making your content accessible. Shorter paragraphs also help.
Mistake #6: You don’t make your content accessible. Since I am in the publishing business, I often get asked if I think people are reading less. The simple answer is “No.” In fact, I think they are reading more than ever. But they are reading differently. Readers have shorter attention spans. They are scanning content, looking for items that interest them. When you use subheads, lists of bullets or numbers, it draws readers in by making your content accessible. Shorter paragraphs also help.
Mistake #7: You don’t create catchy headlines. According to Brian Clark, who runs the must-read site, CopyBlogger, “on average, 8 out of 10 people will read headline copy, but only 2 out of 10 will read the rest.” This means your headlines are the most important thing you write. Fortunately, Brian has an entire series of posts called “How to Write Magnetic Headlines.” I suggest you read every post.
Mistake #8: Your first paragraph is weak. This is critical. Assuming that you have written a great headline, people will next read your first paragraph. You must use this paragraph to pull them into the rest of your blog post. Start with a story, a promise, or a startling fact. The idea is to grab their attention and hang onto it. Many bloggers spend too much time trying to setup the post or provide context. Just get to the point.
Mistake #9: Your post is off-brand. I have often been guilty of this one. If you are a hobby blogger, you can get away with the occasional post that strays from your primary message or brand. But if you are trying to build traffic, you need to find an editorial focus and stick to it. A tighter focus leads to higher traffic. This is why I have tried to narrow my own focus to three areas: leadership, social media, and publishing. If I want to write on something else (e.g., fitness), I do so through one of these three lenses.
Mistake #10: Your post is about YOU. Unless you are a mega-celebrity, readers don’t care about you. Not really. They care about themselves. They want to know what’s in it for THEM. Your personal stories can be a doorway to that, but in the end, the best posts are about your readers’ needs, fears, problems, or concerns. Always ask, “What’s the take-away for my reader?”
There are other mistakes, too; I doubt this list is exhaustive. But I think I have covered the major ones. If you can avoid these, you will be well on your way to increasing your traffic and growing your audience.
Question: What other traffic-killers have you witnessed as a blogger?
Monday, November 8, 2010
Diwali Surprise

Sometimes when your problems hit you like a deluge, unexpected help and support visits you.
In spite of our weaknesses and shortcomings God is so good to us.
President Obama is on a visit to India. We enjoye d watching all the events and appointments on TV.
This is where they stayed in Delhi
Michelle at the crafts bazaar
Monday, November 1, 2010
For All the Saints

All Saints' Day
All Saints' Day (also known as All Hallows' Day or Hallowmas) is the day after All Hallows' Eve (Hallowe'en). It is a feast day celebrated on November 1st by Anglicans and Roman Catholics.
It is an opportunity for followers to remember all saints and martyrs, known and unknown, throughout Christian history. As part of this day of obligation, followers are required to attend church and try not to do any servile work.
Remembering saints and martyrs and dedicating a specific day to them each year has been a Christian tradition since the 4th century AD, but it wasn't until 609AD that Pope Boniface IV decided to remember all martyrs. Originally May 13th was designated as the Feast of All Holy Martyrs. Later, in 837AD, Pope Gregory IV extended the festival to remember all the saints, changed its name to Feast of All Saints and changed the date to November 1st.

Ephesians 2:19 (New American Standard Bible)
19So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints, and are of God's household
Hebrews 12:1 (New International Version © 2010)Hebrews 12
1 Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us,
1. For all the saints who from their labors rest,
2. Thou wast their Rock, their Fortress,
3. Oh, may Thy soldiers, faithful,
4. O blest communion, fellowship divine,
Saturday, October 9, 2010
Sunday 10/10/10 - Perfect 10

To carry it a few digits further, twice on Sunday it will be 10-10-10-10-10, that's 10 minutes after 10 a.m. and 10 p.m. Some believe that because of the rarity of the numerical sequence, 10-10-10 is a lucky day. Others think the opposite.
Of course, Christopher Butler, a math instructor at Case Western Reserve University, just smiles when people ascribe significance to a particular date.
"It's all so arbitrary," he said.
The date is in its essence just a representation of time based on when someone began counting. And the way we count is subject to change.
"Don't get me started on leap years," he said.
If you follow the Hebrew calendar, Sunday is just another day: the 2nd of Cheshvan, 5771.
But most of the world, including the U.S. government, operates on the Gregorian calendar. So, this Sunday is a perfect 10.

People in India are also attaching astrological and memory significance to this date and creating a milestone by celebrating birthdays today. Many couples have booked operation theaters to have babies.Some are having fun parties to remember the day.
Here is a story from Express India
AgenciesPosted: Oct 09, 2010 at 1333 hrs IST
London Yet another amazing coincidence is about to happen and people are looking at it for deeper meanings.
If you want to confess love to someone or waiting for result of your dream job\'\'s interview, Sunday may be the day to test your good fortune.
As the tenth day, of the tenth month, of the tenth year, October 10, 2010, has been hailed as one of the luckiest of the century.
Numerologists have claimed that the row of \'\'perfect tens\'\' symbolises not just a once in a 100 years quirk of the calendar, but a \'\'powerful moment of rebirth\'\'.
However, the date has also sparked fears that a computer virus could be released causing technological havoc.
Register offices are opening specially to conduct Sunday weddings and according to some estimates 31, 050 couples will marry - 10 times as many as on an average Sunday.
Couples have also planned to have their babies delivered by Caesarean that day, in the hope that some of the day\'\'s luck rubs off on their newborn.
Many Las Vegas hotels are offering special 10.10.10 wedding packages and in China, the most popular ceremony slots, which fall between 10am and 10.10am, were snapped up months ago.
Others have the good fortune to celebrate their 10th birthday on the trinumeral-a date in which the day, month and year align.
Elsewhere in the world, mothers-to-be have scheduled their C-sections for tomorrow - a move that will make their child\'\'s birthday extra easy to remember.
In Dubai, one hospital has allowed ten women to choose the date for their Caesarean births.
Sonia Ducie, author of \'\'Numerology: Your Personal Guide For Life\'\', said the number 10 has powerful properties - made all the more potent by repetition.
\"Ten is the number for wisdom, because it contains the essence of all the numbers of one to nine within it,\" the Daily Mail quoted her as saying.
\"And the number one, which features three times in tomorrow\'\'s date, is all about focus, new direction, raw energy and rebirth.
\"It\'\'s the perfect day to decide to go for a job interview because having all these number ones behind you will help achieve your goal,\" she added.
But not everyone believes tomorrow will be lucky, with the Internet awash with fears that a computer virus could strike.

People are searching for all sorts of meaning in this unique date.
Christians do not put their trust in astronomy or numerology. We believe God who created the heaven and earth including everything in the known and unknown space directs our lives and runs the course of the season. Read an article about astrology and the Bible HERE
Numbers have special significance in the Bible.
The Numbers in the Scriptures!(Do they Carry any Spiritual Significance?)
by Tony Warren
There are many Christians who think that when God put numbers in the Bible there was no spiritual significance to it, and neither should we apply any meaning to it other than the number itself. But even if we were to look at this issue superficially, we can readily see that there is some method and certain numerical symbology to the use of numbers in scripture. The consistency in their signification in certain situations testifies to this. There is most certainly a great Spiritual defining in the application of many of these numbers. We are often inclined to underestimate God and what He has planted within His Holy Word. There is far more in the scriptures than can be understood in one man's lifetime, and we can only glean the surface of this storehouse of information. For we see through a glass dimly and know only in part. In this brief study we will look at some of the numbers that carry spiritual or symbolical significance, and examine many of the passages where they are found. Our hope is that this study might help you discern some of the truths which God has ordained that these numbers should illustrate
Meaning of Numbers in the Bible
Number Ten(10)
Previous Number - Next Number
The Number Ten
It has been already pointed out that ten is one of the perfect numbers, and signifies the perfection of Divine order, commencing, as it does, an altogether new series of numbers. The first decade is the representative of the whole numeral system, and originates the system of calculation called "decimals," because the whole system of numeration consists of so many tens, of which the first is a type of the whole.
Completeness of order, marking the entire round of anything, is, therefore, the ever-present signification of the number ten. It implies that nothing is wanting; that the number and order are perfect; that the whole cycle is complete.
The Ten Commandments
The Ten Commandments contain all that is necessary, and no more than is necessary, both as to their number and their order, while the Lord's prayer is complete in ten clauses.
The Lord's Prayer
The Lord's prayer is completed in ten clauses. *
* These clauses have the significance of their respective numbers:—
The first, God's sovereignty.
This is just a sample you can read the full article about Biblical numbers HERE
Friday, October 8, 2010
For Felisol and Norway
NORWAY from Felix Knabel on Vimeo.
Monday, September 20, 2010
Rain Washed
Since the past few day we are having rains, that has brought down the temperatures and its not humid anymore.
We are enjoying the pleasant pre-autumny weather.
In the evening I went out to purchase some groceries, 10 mins walk from my house. While I was in the shop it started raining heavily. I waited sometime an d then getting impatient walked home thoroughly getting wet and sloshing in puddles. My mother was so worried, she thought I 'd die of pneumonia. I took a quick shower and changed into dry clothes, that 's all.
I like walking in the rain, its the puddles I don 'r t like.
Made me go back to our High School days when we enacted that play.
Here is Portia' s court speech which I love so much.
PORTIA: The quality of mercy is not strain'd,
It droppeth as the gentle rain from heaven
Upon the place beneath: it is twice blest;
It blesseth him that gives and him that takes:
'Tis mightiest in the mightiest: it becomes
The throned monarch better than his crown;
His sceptre shows the force of temporal power,
The attribute to awe and majesty,
Wherein doth sit the dread and fear of kings;
But mercy is above this sceptred sway;
It is enthroned in the hearts of kings,
It is an attribute to God himself;
And earthly power doth then show likest God's
When mercy seasons justice. .
PS- Please take a moment to watch the video I have posted below.
Friday, September 10, 2010
Postcards of the mind
I am glad Terry Jones has cancelled his Koran (Quran) burning stunt.It was a very insensitive , unwise and un-Christian move. Already a church in Bhopal (Central India) had received a blow -up threat God only knows what else would follow.
Don 't try to conquer hate with hate Terry Jones.
Actually that 's what I am right now. My Desktop and Laptop are at war with each other. I changed my blog background yesterday using my laptop and posted a Sept 9th entry which you all read and commented on, but the background change and post does not show on the desktop. It 's not even listed under archives. This post also is not showing, although Blogger tells me that my post has been published. What 's wrong?I hope the error corrects it self. Till then I 'll walk by faith and not by sight
I read a blog improvement article in my newspaper and they have listed some things which I find very helpful.
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
The Gift

Friendship is a gift I treasure most of all. This vintage graphic from Holly is so sweet.
I want to share some photos of my American friend Diana (I stole them from her Facebook album). Her husband Dave is Indian. He was our spiritual mentor several years ago before he migrated to the US.He lived there for a long time and returned to India. They got married a few years ago. Dave is a professional photographer , video-grapher, and graphic designer etc. etc. They have a flourishing business. He has promised to teach me some photo editing. They live so far away I don 't get to see them very often.Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Rakhi- Thread of Love
Today is Raksha Bandhan when sisters tie the sacred thread of love on the arms of their brothers.Sweets and gifts are exchanged between siblings.
The Hindus do a pooja (worship) on this occasion, but people of all faiths celebrate without the religious ceremony. It is a cultural event. You can read more about it on the following link.
He is a Muslim man , that is very evident from his features, beard and attire. He carries his merchandise on his head and walks everywhere. Quite an arduous task.



