Nice Guys Finish Last - Not Exactly

I offer a ponderance:

"Nice Guys Finish Last"

I have heard this phrase many times in my life. I never believed it was true, because I have known men who are nice that do not "finish last". I also have known very unkind men who do not finish at all...

However, the purpose of this nugget is not to discredit the phrase. The point, is to refine it - in order to make it more accurate...

For the last 50 years or so, feminism has been blaming the main-stream of men in this country for a fictional oppression of women. The feminists and others have been poisoning women's minds with things like the following:

• 150,000 Women die each year from anorexia.
  
• The "Lady Justice" Statue
  
• Men are Afraid of Intimacy
  
• Men have a hard time expressing their feelings
  
• Men are Afraid of Commitment
  
• Labelling Certain Ads as being Objectifying or Degrading to Women
  
• In Older Times, Women Were Not Allowed to Have Careers.
  
• Passing of the "Violence Against Women Act"
  
• Most Paternity Accusations are Legitimate
  
• Both Men and Women must Register for Selective Services
  
• Only Men Must Register for Selective Services because only Men Start Wars
  
• 30% of Yearly Hospital Visits by Women are the Result of Domestic Violence
  
• Women only Commit Domestic Violence in Self-Defense
  
• Flood of Domestic Violence Commercials and Public Service Announcements
  
• False Accusations of Domestic Violence or Child Abuse are Rare
  
• False Accusations of Rape are Rare or Non-Existant
  
• Various FALSE Rape Statistics
  
• The Phrase, "Rule of Thumb" Originated from Wife-Beating Laws.
  
• 25% of Women in College have been the Victim of Rape or Attempted Rape
  
• Women Earn $0.75 for each $1.00 a Man Earns for Doing the Same Work.
  
• A "Nice Guy" is a whining, self-serving manipulative man.
  
• A Female Virgin is Somehow "Pure".
  
• Constant Flood of Levitra, Viagra and Cialis Commercials.
  
• In Older Times, Women Were Not Allowed to Get College Educations.
  

Who is it that gets blamed for all of this fictional oppression? The main-stream of men in this country of course. After all, those men are where they are today - as a direct result of such oppression. That is, the majority (mainstream) of men in this country are all homophobic, misogynist, racist - and of course - white...

I offer this theory:

It is not nice-guys that finish last - it is "mainstream" guys that finish last.
Think about it - the majority of men in this country have been raised to be kind - as they should be. It is this majority of men who represent the "mainstream" of men in this country - the men who women have had their minds poisoned against - as they seriously believe that those men are responsible - or are the product of years of fictional mistreatment of women.

So, nice-guys do not finish last - mainstream guys finish last.

And - the mainstream guy in America - happens to be nice (most men in America are raised to be nice).

This is why so many women seem to be attracted to complete losers - the attraction is not to a "rebel", it is more an attraction to an "outcast". That is, the losers they so frequently fall for are, in their minds, outcasts of a society that is oppressive to women.

This makes more sense to me than, "Nice Guys Finish Last", as there are nice guys who do not finish last, and there are mean guys that do not finish at all.

Just an observation on my part.